Still others attempt to resolve despair by "dumbing down" their desires, "settling for less" than what is truly wanted. Low Desire + Low Belief = Comfort Zone. Comfort Zone is deceptively "safe". Comfort Zone keeps people stuck. Most of what we really want lies just outside the line of our Comfort Zone.
A friend was offered free tickets to the Millionaire Mind Intensive Seminar - but turned them down, saying, "I don't want to be rich, I just want to be comfortable". Perhaps he was unaware that the MMI could raise his vibrational state of Desire + Belief, re-awaken an awareness of BE + DO = HAVE, and align him vibrationally with universal power, thus manifesting into his life a new level of growth and personal achievement. He chose to stay stuck.
I love movies like "Hidalgo", "A Knight's Tale", "Patch Adams" - stories of big wins. What makes a big win? A Dream or Vision of a Goal, (thoughts & feelings) + Massive Action (overcoming obstacles) + Allowing = Accomplishment.
What kind of experience are you creating your life to be?